Hi! Long time no write. We have a different sense of time up here (we move very fast) so a few minutes to us is years to you.)
Anyway Mrs. Stillman wrote a piece about when I died so I thought I would share with you. Here it is:
Anyway Mrs. Stillman wrote a piece about when I died so I thought I would share with you. Here it is:
Christmas
I hated the new apartment. It was
so small it could’ve fit into the living room of the big beautiful house I had
just sold. The rooms were tiny, too tiny for an art studio. I’m an artist but I
couldn’t paint there. I felt I couldn’t do anything there. My future looked
empty. I had lost everything, my savings, my career, my dog. I was lost.
I was defeated.
I decided to adopt another dog,
friends told me that would help. I adopted Libby who had been rescued from a
terrible puppy mill. She couldn’t speak
or bark. The mill had destroyed her vocal chords on purpose. That’s what they
do. But Libby could think, and love, and
make me smile. Libby wanted to write about her life
as an unpaid worker, breeding, in
a puppy mill. So, I channeled her thoughts for her and we made a puppy log blog
called a Plog.
. She wrote silly poetry,
something I would never dare do, and she drew pictures to illustrate her
stories. They were pretty good for a dog, nothing like my pictures. She
invented recipes for cat pie and squirrel cake. And as we collaborated, Libby
taught me things about me that I never knew. Libby made me live again.
One Christmas eve, after a few happy
years of living and working together, we were hanging out on the living room
sofa watching the snow fall through the glow under the streetlights I noticed
that Libby seemed to be breathing pretty fast.it worried me but I told myself,
she’s just panting like she often does. I didn’t want to leave the warm, comfy
place we were in. And it looked so cold out there. So, I told myself it would
be okay. I thought her breathing was slowing down as we drifted off to sleep, right
there on the soft pillows of the sofa.
On Christmas morning the snow was
coming down much harder. Poor Libby was breathing very fast. I knew should have
called last night, but it was so cold out and we were so cozy. But I should
have called. I should have. I grabbed the phone and called Cornell Veterinary
School:
“Is this an emergency?
On holidays we only take
emergencies.”
“I think so. My dog is breathing
very fast.”
“I see. That could be very
serious. Bring her in right away.”
I bundled her up in baby blankets
and made my way through the snow up the long hill to Cornell. They took
her in immediately. I called after them, "she wasn’t this bad last
night." The doors swung shut behind them. I waited.
When they asked me in for
consultation, they talked and talked in euphemistic circles about possible
actions to take before finally saying to me what I already realized.
"It would be very hard on
her to go through all that."
"I know."
"The best thing would be
to....”
“Yes, yes, I understand. Can I
just see her one last time?”
“Her lungs are filled with fluid.
It’s probably lung cancer
We put her in an oxygen tent and
gave her morphine to make her more
comfortable, She is heavily drugged, but I will bring her out.”
I waited in the tiny featureless
examination room for my Libby. When I held her in my arms her head lolled back,
her tongue hung out, and her eyes were blank. She didn't know me. It hurt me so
much that I gave her back right away. Much too soon,
What could I do with her? I knew
I couldn't bury her in the frozen ground, so I made a quick decision to escape
my pain. I told them to keep her. They carried her away. My life went with her.
I walked through the cinderblock corridors, down the antiseptic halls, past
the empty waiting room, and out into the cold lonely snow. I left the hospital
without my baby, my muse, my inspiration, alone.
Of all the deaths that I have
endured; my mom, my dad, others. Libby's was the worst, the hardest to
accept, the one loaded with ifs and guilt. The one I still feel, physically, in
my stomach, my throat, my shoulders, my heart.
Libby’s is the one I still feel.
The only one.